Stupid Secrets. Withholding important information for fear of rejection.
Stupid Egotism. "My freedom/ fights to do what I want are more important than your feelings/ needs." Ask not what you can do for this relationship. Ask only what this relationship can do for you.
Stupid pettiness. Making a big deal out of the small stuff.
Stupid power. Never lose an argument or sacrifice anything. Always be in control, never let the other forget he/she hurt you or messed up.
Stupid priorities. Consuming all your time and energies with work, hobbies, errands, chores, missions -- an unkempt bed has a higher priority than the relationship.
Stupid happiness. Seeking stimulation and assurance from all the wrong places to satisfy the immature need to feel good versus to be good.
Stupid excuses. Instead of acknowledging misdeeds and being accountable and responsible, you fight back with excuses which just cause more damage -- learn to apologize.
Stupid liaisons. Staying attached to relatives and friends who are outright bad influence and destructive to yourself or your relationship. Allowing these folks to hurt your partner.
Stupid mismatch. Seeing the red flags clearly and yet you stay around trying to put a square peg in a round hole -- not knowing when to leave and cut your losses.
Stupid breakups. Disconnecting for all the wrong reasons.
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